A talk indeed fullest of mean :)

      A conversation of sisterhood. We mumble, babble, n TALKS a lot. At the end, we make a conclusion of these and those. But they aren't just words nor phrase. People would say do with ACTION not words. Yeah, maybe words do express somehow, we are not kids anymore.


    Treated a kids, yes, you say simply say, I love you, You love me, but then, we are not kids anymore. The cycle is different totally. Do make as you are adult. But do in proper ways. If not married yet, knows the limit. Behave yourself. If you love her, do not treated her like a slut (sorry) means that, like any other guy can have her. You need to aware that you also that "anyotherguys" because she is not HALAL for you yet.                      


                                 Guys.. (If u married)

Hugs her! :') 

Please lend ur shoulder to her cry on.. She needs you.


And.. 

♥ Love your Wife ♥

♥ Love her.. when she sips on your coffee or your tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes for you.

♥ Love her.. when she "pushes" you to pray. She wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise).

♥ Love her.. when she asks you to play with kids. She did not "make" them on her own~

♥ Love her.. when she is jealous. Out of all men she can have, she chose you.

♥ Love her.. when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.

♥ Love her.. when her cooking is bad. She tries.

♥ Love her when she looks disheveled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again.

♥ Love her when she asks to help with the kids homework. She only wants you to be part of the home.

♥ Love her.. when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she's beautiful.

♥ Love her.. when she looks beautiful. She's yours so appreciate her.

♥ Love her.. when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.

♥ Love her.. when she buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell her it's what you've always wanted.


♥  Love her.. when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change.

♥ Love her.. when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don't ask, tell her it's going to be okay.

♥ Love her.. when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back just chat to her ( trust me this works! )

♥ Love her.. when whatever you do not is not pleasing. It happens and will pass.


♥ Love her.. when she satins your clothes. You needed a new cloth anyway.

♥ Love her.. when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both
.

♥ Love her.. when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safee.

♥ Love her she is yours. You don't need any other special reason!!!

"Find someone that isn't afraid to admit they miss you, knows you're not perfect but treats you as if you are.. Someone who couldn't imagine losing you, gives their heart to you completely, says I love you and proves it.. Find someone who wouldn't mind waking up to you in the morning, seeing your wrinkles and grey hair but still falls in love with you all over again."

Ana kuat, yeah :)

AHUKAH KITA? Ketika Allah rindu pada hambanya, Allah akan mengirimkan sebuah hadiah istimewa melalui malaikat Jibril yang isinya adalah ujian…

Dalam hadith qudsi Allah berfirman:

“Pergilah pada hambaku lalu timpakanlah berbagai ujian padanya kerana Aku ingin mendengar rintihannya.”(HR. Thabrani dari Abu Umamah)

Abu Said dan Abu Hurairah r.a. meriwayatkan bahawa Nabi SAW. bersabda:

“Seorang muslim yang ditimpa penderitaan, kegundahan, kesedihan, kesakitan, gangguan, dan kerisauan, bahkan hanya terkena duri sekalipun, semuanya itu merupakan kafarat (penebus) dari dosa-dosanya.”
(H.R. Bukhari dan Muslim)

Jangan sedih bila orang lain tidak memahami anda..
Tapi sedihlah karena anda tidak mau memahami orang lain.

Jangan sedih bila orang lain tidak mempercayai anda..
Tapi sedihlah karena anda tidak percaya diri sendiri.

Jangan sedih bila orang lain tidak memberi kesempatan kepada anda..
Tapi sedihlah karena anda belum buat persiapan.

Jangan sedih bila orang lain tidak menghargai anda..
Tapi sedihlah karena anda tidak bisa menghargai orang lain.

Jangan sedih bila orang lain menghina anda..
Tapi sedihlah karena anda membuat hina diri sendiri.

Jangan sedih bila orang lain memaki anda..
Tapi sedihlah karena anda bermulut jahat pada orang lain.

Jangan sedih orang selalu mengritik kita..
Tapi sedihlah karena anda tak pernah mau perbaiki diri.

Jangan sedih karena anda selalu jatuh..
Tapi sedihlah karena anda tak mau bangkit kembali.

Jangan sedih karena perjalanan hidup anda pahit getir..
Tapi sedihlah karena anda tak pernah belajar dari pengalaman.

INGATLAH..
Kunci masalah selalu ada dalam diri, bukan di luar.

Orang kata , semakin banyak kau beriman..
”Kau akn diuji terus bertubi-tubi..”

Orang kata , semakin banyak kau berbuat baik..
”Kau akn terus berdepan dengan masalah..”

Ini semua benar.. Menjadi org yg baik bukan senang..
Sebab itu.. ia terus ” Diuji supaya menjadi baik..”

” la yukallifullahu nafsan illa wus’aha!”

Ukhuwah

Assalamualaikum everyone:)
Have a nice weekend.
Today I would like to post a bout something that we used to called it human-hood. Baiklah, PERSAUDARAAN or else Ukhuwah.

Since that last week. I mean the whole of last week which also last until 7 days, at last my dear and dear friend get along together as they used to be. Friends used to fight, hard feeling among each other. That one normal. But ain't it abnormal for 7 days? Guys sorry to say this. But I believe that you both know I am tired of the drama. For me ego has become the barrier. The big one. But love you both because at last back the way you both used to be.

Namun, tolonglah, kepada teman-teman yang lain. Janganlah begini. I am myself have experienced something like this. And I hate the past. Sadly, we cannot turn those moment back to normal again. Too sad:'(

Ukhuwah. Well, hari ini mari cakap tentang ini. Akutertarik kejap dengan benda ni since that aku dekat wajib begini. Oh well, wherever I'll be of course. But this time is different. How we would wanna tie this with those non-Muslim(s)? Wellthere is  the way. Islam has made the guideline for us as the followers. And eventhough, we have to respect their belief.

“Dan janganlah kamu caci benda yang mereka sembah selain dari Allah, kerana mereka kelak akan mencaci Allah secara melampaui batas tanpa pengetahuan. Demikianlah Kami memperelokkan pada pandangan tiap-tiap umat akan amal perbuatan mereka, kemudian kepada Tuhan merekalah tempat kembali mereka, lalu Ia menerangkan kepada mereka apa yang mereka telah lakukan.”

(Al-an'aam ;108)

Like certain people yang suka sangat nak mengutuk agama orang lain. For me, no need la, live peacefully ok already ma. And one more thing that even if we don't like no need to show. Just winky winky. bahahaha.

Plus, at my position right now, we are at university. It is really not the right place to have some debate style . We do have to consider about the others. Respect their belief, religion. Also be fair to them. Well, as long as nothing seriously cause ok?

Like what has been quote in Quran;

 

 Hugging? There's the limit:0

“Allah tidak melarang kamu daripada berbuat baik dan berlaku adil kepada orang-orang yang tidak memerangi kamu kerana agamamu, dan tidak mengeluarkan kamu dari kampung halaman kamu; sesungguhnya Allah mengasihi orang yang berlaku adil. Sesungguhnya Allah hanyalah melarang kamu daripada menjadikan teman rapat orang-orang yang memerangi kamu kerana agama (kamu), dan mengeluarkan kamu dari kampung halamanmu, serta mereka membantu (orang lain) untuk mengusir kamu. Dan (ingatlah) sesiapa yang menjadikan mereka teman rapat, maka mereka itulah orang-orang yang zalim”.

Islam really is perfect for life. Even it has provide us the guideline how to intermingle with people around. How you should care about others. Respect their thoughts. Even when you are about to give free advices, there is the guideline. Do not rush into it. Praise them first. Ease them. Win their heart.

There is nothing wrong to treat people well. I admit I'm kind of person who love to trick people but sometime there is also a limit (Do not do it). Even you know that it is your responsibility  to hide other's aib. No need to share with people. Hereafter, Allah protects you. Insya-Allah.

May Allah leads us to the right path:)
Ameen.

Assalamualaikum,
There you are Nur Farhana yang Alhamdulillah still being alive. Am have no idea about what heading me in future. That is why kept saying Alhamdulillah for being alive. And much more alive. How do you feel someday when you wake up you are not in this world anymore? Let's not talk about this just flashing back whenenver you have some sort of dream that you wouldn't be able to get back to real world. I'm myself afraid that I would never have time to to good deeds anymore. The end of your life. Not even having time to renew your repent? Yeah it is. For me.

By not specifically for only Muslim but any other religon also. They do believe that there is either Hell or Heaven for you awaited for the other phase of life. That is why people are stive for it. The only thing that I used to wonder. Really. We are different in many ways out, but we do have same believe.

Somehow, I wondered why those are non-Muslim can succeed in life whlist if you really see (I believe you know already) most of those NON really have soemthing into what they do. Hardworking. As my own self, I love watching people. I thorough things amongst Chinese as I "adore" them sometimes. They are really hardworking people. If some of my buddies say "Kita kan kene solat, mereka tak perlu, so banyak masa what?" Do they? Even it is, I admit it.But isn't it sounds like Solat would only wasting your time? Wake up people. We should be very proud that we have Allah as the only place to rely on. But they? Even of being as Buddist or Christian they are respect their religion. Not like most Muslim nowadays, they are very disrespectful. Just look at they way they dressed up. If the basic things about aurat you can't get and handle it how about your internal? Your iman? Your akidah? Maybe I get to much but that is the truth.

And sadly if friends try to give some advice they thought be rude. And get angry and worst is lost friendship. Is that the right way it is? That is world nowadayas. So.... unrule. Just be someone who take the advices for good. Remember that truth is hurt, but in the end, it do really sweeten up. :)

Till then. Wassalam.