:Salam 3rd Ramadhan:
Just suit to the title itself. Nickname. Just in the first place you have to know when you give any nickname to someone it is not something that is what we called terrible. Even if it is hurful. Just endure with it because that is one of the way it is functioned in any relationship. For me frindship especially.
As for me I have many nickname. Let me think for awhile.....
It is about... Not many though. Just 6. In differ situation and differ person that responsible with.
1. ARA
:My father do called me by this even until now. Not just that even my relatives from Melaka. I hate them called me that but get to used with it after more that one decade of life through:
:According to mama story, when I was baby I am qiute slow compared to my older one. Just used to kura-kura (tortoise). When we make it short, it became ARA: =____="" (How could you) But now I am just in love with that creature.
2. FARHANA / FANA ( I hate the most; it means "binasa")
:By those who are friend to me. From kindergarden till lower secondary ONLY. Because after that I have been transfered to another school and started called by ......
:My family do called me by this name:
* so whenever I heard someone called me by Farhana means that he/she from my very previous school.
3. FAR
:Ain't that mean distant of place? Yeah it is. But learn to know and always remembered this person named Lyiana Akhiruddin (my dear compound mate for two years at MJSC Kuantan. I hate it at first. But that is how people know me. Even without realizing it I used to called myself that. And even for the first time ever in form 5 I urged to my Physics teacher to called me by that name. Till now it is:
4. ANA
:Called by those really close to me. My best friends (Wani, Sakilah, Azira). And my mother. It means "me". But some friends say, I just don't suit with this nickname. My roomates in MMC laughed out loud to me for this:
5. Rockers
:Just for awhile when I have had problems with my voise as I got cold. A friend named Fakhrul called me by these name for the whole week.
6. MAMA
:Just not suit me at all. MMC-ians called me just because the roll I take for Minggu Orientasi. And succeed for this. ( in fact I thought for loss)
No matter what name those people called me / will called me by. I just take it and endure it. Because i realized that is one of the way people get to know you well. But here is some public selg regard used in Malaysia.
1. Aku-Kau (I - You)
:For those have close relationship already. For guys instead it is normal . Ain't it weird Malaysian? When you heard guys here called by Saya-Awak? Hahahaha sangat funnnnnnyyyy~
2. Saya-Awak
:For girls or any couple if in public:
Alhamdulillah (0_0)
Tuesday, 2 August 2011
Hak aku, Hak kamu, dan Hak mereka?
Salam, it's been loooooooooong while since the last post.
After the September (which is my birth month) I may won't be here as often as before. Is it? Just wait and see. Iyakah? May Yes May Not at all.
Congratulation to my ownself as I always get what I do not want to. But being able to remembered that it may be the best for me could calm me down. So here I will be soon. UniMAP. University of Malaysia Perlis.
Bachelor (Hons.) in Computer Engineering. So far from the heart really wanted.
My friend, Muhd Radhi bin Abu. This man, he gets overall of what I have dreamt about. Geology in UKM. But kawan, Gud luck yea? Dulu ypu have been in Perlis so that is now my turn. I've never been in Perlis before even it is just in Penisular Of Malaysia. Just like an American whom lived in New York never been in California. Hahahaha.
But now it is about right! Truth is, who you are sometimes the is boundary of right between us. You do bot have to do that just you are wondered. You just do not have done that just because you are what you are. I hate it because then in future I just stuck in the middle of grey that I do not know how to explain what is happening right there because of the right you have had. But I thought it thoroughly. Allah knew what is the best for me. Always think the side of positively as I could.
Do not thought of something bad when you are emotionally.
Do not talk when you are bad mood. If possible doe smile a lot.
You might hurt people around because of your weak EQ.
That is it. Oh by the way. Happy Ramadhan Al-Mubarak to all Muslimin and Muslimat.
Salam.
After the September (which is my birth month) I may won't be here as often as before. Is it? Just wait and see. Iyakah? May Yes May Not at all.
Congratulation to my ownself as I always get what I do not want to. But being able to remembered that it may be the best for me could calm me down. So here I will be soon. UniMAP. University of Malaysia Perlis.
Bachelor (Hons.) in Computer Engineering. So far from the heart really wanted.
My friend, Muhd Radhi bin Abu. This man, he gets overall of what I have dreamt about. Geology in UKM. But kawan, Gud luck yea? Dulu ypu have been in Perlis so that is now my turn. I've never been in Perlis before even it is just in Penisular Of Malaysia. Just like an American whom lived in New York never been in California. Hahahaha.
But now it is about right! Truth is, who you are sometimes the is boundary of right between us. You do bot have to do that just you are wondered. You just do not have done that just because you are what you are. I hate it because then in future I just stuck in the middle of grey that I do not know how to explain what is happening right there because of the right you have had. But I thought it thoroughly. Allah knew what is the best for me. Always think the side of positively as I could.
Do not thought of something bad when you are emotionally.
Do not talk when you are bad mood. If possible doe smile a lot.
You might hurt people around because of your weak EQ.
That is it. Oh by the way. Happy Ramadhan Al-Mubarak to all Muslimin and Muslimat.
Salam.
Tuesday, 12 July 2011
Jealousy
Assalamualaikum.
Ohhhh...tidak! Saya sedang mencemburui kamu tahu? Pastilah kamu tidak tahu menahu sama sekali atau beberapa kalipun. Apakah ? Iwould say that anyone yang dapat my brother is totally bertuah mahkluk tu. Ok! Am not going to promote my brother . Nak lelong? Apatah lagi kan. Ingat boleh dijual beli ke manusia nih ?
Aku bercakap pasal his determination about someone ! Totally jeles gila uh. I wish "him" would be like that but. Since that the past. Malas nak cakapkan. Mulakan hidup baru.
About my brother. I just can say. I am not that close to him. Just once before dia masuk boarding school. Tapi remembered kot, some other time dia masakkan untuk aku (tak ingat) masa tengah demam. I almost can't believe that. I still remembered first time we all sent him to MJSC Pontian . Few nights before, together with him packing his clothes. And I also have thought of being in boarding school like he did. But I do admit I am not as smart as he is. I do envied him a lot lah. But after all he is my brother.
Even,no one ever knew that I have even once ambitioned to be a doctor like him one day. But I just can't. I excelled in Biology better that my Physic and Chemistry during high school.But it turned out to be I am just better at Physic. Even now. I am graduated from Matriculation with A- in Physic and B+ in Chemistry. Math? Do no ask! I do envy him.
As I also love him for being such a good big brother. Wish him the best in life. May Allah blessed you.
Ohhhh...tidak! Saya sedang mencemburui kamu tahu? Pastilah kamu tidak tahu menahu sama sekali atau beberapa kalipun. Apakah ? Iwould say that anyone yang dapat my brother is totally bertuah mahkluk tu. Ok! Am not going to promote my brother . Nak lelong? Apatah lagi kan. Ingat boleh dijual beli ke manusia nih ?
Aku bercakap pasal his determination about someone ! Totally jeles gila uh. I wish "him" would be like that but. Since that the past. Malas nak cakapkan. Mulakan hidup baru.
About my brother. I just can say. I am not that close to him. Just once before dia masuk boarding school. Tapi remembered kot, some other time dia masakkan untuk aku (tak ingat) masa tengah demam. I almost can't believe that. I still remembered first time we all sent him to MJSC Pontian . Few nights before, together with him packing his clothes. And I also have thought of being in boarding school like he did. But I do admit I am not as smart as he is. I do envied him a lot lah. But after all he is my brother.
Even,no one ever knew that I have even once ambitioned to be a doctor like him one day. But I just can't. I excelled in Biology better that my Physic and Chemistry during high school.But it turned out to be I am just better at Physic. Even now. I am graduated from Matriculation with A- in Physic and B+ in Chemistry. Math? Do no ask! I do envy him.
As I also love him for being such a good big brother. Wish him the best in life. May Allah blessed you.
Tuesday, 5 July 2011
Be Yourself Or Just Being Normal as Ever?
Assalamualaikum. Petang.
Awasi saya! Ada yang sedang duduk di belakang dan melihat-lihat apa-apa yang sedang saya karangkan. Saya atau aku sama sahaja. Aku lebih dekat. Saya lebih mendalam. Adakah perbezaannya? Pasti dan benar sekali.
"Saya ingin menjadi diri sendiri" atau "Just be yourself"
Dua kata-kata ini sesuai lah hanya pada mereka yang normal dan mengikur norma kehidupan. Hipokrit? Siapa antara kita yang tidak pernah hipokrit?
Contohnya :
:Situasi Satu:
Seorang temannya , A sedang berkarya dan seorang teman lain ke arah temannya, iaitu Teman B.
"Wah, cantiknya karya kau!"
Dalam ketika itu teman B dan C juga berada di tempat kejadian lalu menghampiri sehingga terpaculnya.
"Berbakatlah kau. Cantik"
Hakikatnya, teman A sedang tersipu-sipu malu yang macam haper je kan? Tapi, adakah A, B mahu pun C begitu jujur? Kalau ada yang mendengki? (itu lain cerita lah)
:Situasi Dua:
Teman D dan E keluar bersama-sama. Kononnya nak release tension (macam remaja sekarang). Berbelanja lah kan. Atau lebih tepat lagi bersoooppppping!
"Cantik tak baju ni?" D bertanya.
"Cantik, memang sesuai kalau kau pakai." E menjawab.
Macam ayat yang biasa dengar je. Tapi itulah dia.
:Situasi Tiga:
Agak besar sikit skop dia. Orang yang sedang bermesyuarat. Seorang memberikan idea. Maka yang lain akan bersetuju. Tapi di alam pekerjaan agak berbeza dan malah lebih mencabar. Kebanyakannya yang duduk dalam ofis yang sama tu MUSUH tahu? sebabnya semua inginkan yang terbaik. Saya pun mungkin tak terkecuali kelak (tapi tak mahu tikam kawan sendiri kan? Janganlah)
Hakikatnya di dunia ni, semua orang takmampu menjadi diri sendiri sepanjang masa atau anda akan dibenci secara serta merta. Umpamanya orang yang terlalu jujur memang menyakitkan hati. Orang yang kerap menipu kekadang disukai.
Hello guys, tak ada istilah tipu sunat tahu? Yang ada cuma yang dibolehkan . Contohnya untuk menyelamatkan keadaan.
Saya juga tidak menjadi diri sendiri tatkala kaki melangkah keluar dari pintu rumah. Mahu pun depan kawan baik saya sendiri. Tapi lebih 75% (insya-Allah ) adalah saya. Saya akui saya bukan seorang yang terlalu sopan santun macam perempuan lain. Tapi saya masih berhemah. Ke mana saja kita jejaki ingatlah yang kita membawa nama keluarga sekali. So jangan sebab terlalu nak jadi diri sendiri sampai memalukan nama baik keluarga.
Peace No War! :D
Hakikatnya jadi diri sendiri lebih baik kan?
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Awasi saya! Ada yang sedang duduk di belakang dan melihat-lihat apa-apa yang sedang saya karangkan. Saya atau aku sama sahaja. Aku lebih dekat. Saya lebih mendalam. Adakah perbezaannya? Pasti dan benar sekali.
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"Saya ingin menjadi diri sendiri" atau "Just be yourself"
Dua kata-kata ini sesuai lah hanya pada mereka yang normal dan mengikur norma kehidupan. Hipokrit? Siapa antara kita yang tidak pernah hipokrit?
Contohnya :
:Situasi Satu:
Seorang temannya , A sedang berkarya dan seorang teman lain ke arah temannya, iaitu Teman B.
"Wah, cantiknya karya kau!"
Dalam ketika itu teman B dan C juga berada di tempat kejadian lalu menghampiri sehingga terpaculnya.
"Berbakatlah kau. Cantik"
Hakikatnya, teman A sedang tersipu-sipu malu yang macam haper je kan? Tapi, adakah A, B mahu pun C begitu jujur? Kalau ada yang mendengki? (itu lain cerita lah)
:Situasi Dua:
Teman D dan E keluar bersama-sama. Kononnya nak release tension (macam remaja sekarang). Berbelanja lah kan. Atau lebih tepat lagi bersoooppppping!
"Cantik tak baju ni?" D bertanya.
"Cantik, memang sesuai kalau kau pakai." E menjawab.
Macam ayat yang biasa dengar je. Tapi itulah dia.
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:Situasi Tiga:
Agak besar sikit skop dia. Orang yang sedang bermesyuarat. Seorang memberikan idea. Maka yang lain akan bersetuju. Tapi di alam pekerjaan agak berbeza dan malah lebih mencabar. Kebanyakannya yang duduk dalam ofis yang sama tu MUSUH tahu? sebabnya semua inginkan yang terbaik. Saya pun mungkin tak terkecuali kelak (tapi tak mahu tikam kawan sendiri kan? Janganlah)
Hakikatnya di dunia ni, semua orang takmampu menjadi diri sendiri sepanjang masa atau anda akan dibenci secara serta merta. Umpamanya orang yang terlalu jujur memang menyakitkan hati. Orang yang kerap menipu kekadang disukai.
Hello guys, tak ada istilah tipu sunat tahu? Yang ada cuma yang dibolehkan . Contohnya untuk menyelamatkan keadaan.
Saya juga tidak menjadi diri sendiri tatkala kaki melangkah keluar dari pintu rumah. Mahu pun depan kawan baik saya sendiri. Tapi lebih 75% (insya-Allah ) adalah saya. Saya akui saya bukan seorang yang terlalu sopan santun macam perempuan lain. Tapi saya masih berhemah. Ke mana saja kita jejaki ingatlah yang kita membawa nama keluarga sekali. So jangan sebab terlalu nak jadi diri sendiri sampai memalukan nama baik keluarga.
Peace No War! :D
Hakikatnya jadi diri sendiri lebih baik kan?
"Lebih baik dibenci kerana diri anda daripada disayangi kerana diri anda yang palsu"
"Original better than copy and hard to be"
(Macam kau nak pergi kedai dan buat fotokopi. Kena pakai duit lagi kan?)
Wassalam.
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